We’re getting there. We’re tuning up our health and optimism. And finding ways to reconnect with family and friends. Now we can reach out even more.
The possibilities are endless. We can visit neighbours, volunteer or even check out plays, concerts and festivals. Time to spark joy and to build friendships for the long run. Together, we can build kinder communities.
Don’t really know your neighbours? You’re not alone. Try knocking on your neighbour’s door. After all, many people still work from home. Everyone is struggling to navigate the new normal. Start with one small act of kindness.
- Drop off home-baked treats, a card or some of your world-famous chili.
- Offer to walk the lonely dog of someone who’s gone back to work in-person.
- Chat up your neighbours as you shovel snow. Offer to help.
- Invite a neighbour in for hot chocolate or cider. Or bundle up and sip on the porch or balcony.
- Walk in your neighbourhood at the same time each day. Say hi to the regular walkers you pass. Ask their name. Ask their dog’s name. There—introduction’s made!
- Share your skills. Know how to knit, bake bread or play the ukulele? Invite a neighbour over to show them how. See Life.School.House to get inspired.
- “I just moved into a new apartment complex. One neighbour started a weekly “happy hour” in the common room for people on our floor. We also have a “group text” to share news, invitations and requests for help.”
- “My friend’s son (with support of his facilitator and family) started a Little Free Library in front of his house. It’s a great way to exchange books with neighbours. And to get to know them.”
- Next Door Canada. Sign up for this app to meet neighbours, find a babysitter, borrow tools and more.
- 75 Actions that Build Community by John O’Brien, Inclusion.com. A checklist of easy ways to build community. Choose one action to try.
- The Value Of Neighbouring, A powerful podcast by the Tamarack Institute.
Especially during the holidays, you may be looking for ways to give back. Your loved one might enjoy volunteering at a group task. Co-volunteers can provide natural supports and friendship.
- Check your local volunteer centre for opportunities. How about packing food hampers or delivering library books to housebound readers? Virtual volunteering is also an option.
- Join a group that shovels snow for seniors such as Snow Angels in Guelph.
- Contact local service clubs to offer help at holiday drive- through light displays or events.
While popular holiday volunteer jobs may be taken, you can still help out in other ways.
- Write thank-you notes to crossing guards, letter carriers, grocery store workers, building superintendents etc
- Knit warm scarves and mitts and donate them.
- See what your local animal shelter needs. Drop off items.
- Write personal notes to residents in long term care homes.
- Choose an action from Holiday Volunteering: Other Ways to Give Back.
“My daughter’s friend is a talented knitter. She makes and sells hats and scarves to family and friends. Then she donates the money back to the Church she belongs to.”
So many choices! Theatres are lit up with lights, music and stories again. Crafters are selling their wares at shows and “maker spaces.” And there’s a festival for every interest—holidays, comedy, food and more.
- Think local to meet locals. Check your public library, online newspaper or arts associations for happenings. Follow arts organizations on Instagram and Facebook to stay current.
- Find arts events and festivals through Eventbrite.
- Attend events remotely. Search for virtual concerts, theatre, comedy nights etc at BlogTo. Or check out this Festival and Events Calendar.
- Invite a friend or another family to join you at your favourite attractions. Visit art galleries, zoos, historic sites and more. What a joy to write down plans on family calendars again.
- Access 2 Card. Offers free or discounted admission for people supporting someone with a disability at an attraction or venue.
PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER
PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER
Learning a neighbour’s name. Dropping off cookies. Volunteering at an outdoor festival. All are small but powerful steps to creating community. Be brave. Be kind. And believe that you’re making a difference.
Watch for our next Guide “Building Supportive Networks” for more ways to build friendships and supports among like-minded families.
Over the next few months, watch your email for the New Normal Action Guides.
The pandemic has taught us that relationships, health and community can’t be taken for granted. Now, our communities are opening up. And we have a chance to start again. We can build supportive relationships now and for the future.
DON'T FORGET TO READ:
Action Guide One: Moving Beyond the Pandemic
Action Guide Two: Staying Healthy & Motivated
Action Guide Three: Reconnecting with Friends and Family
Action Guide Five: Connecting with Family Networks
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